Saturday, February 14, 2009

A V-day post.

I've always believed that God has carefully planned my life for me...
That's why I do not regret any experience and simply enjoy the wonderful blessings that come my way.

I recently had a realization that I'd like to share...

So far, my boyfriend count has been: ONE.
And I plan to keep it that way!
And people would almost always be amazed that I've been keeping a relationship with only ONE person for more than SIX YEARS...
And, for some reason, as a common "outlet" of love stories-slash-problems, in the end the people I've come to talk to would eventually say how lucky I am with my "love life"...
And i just smile.

I never expected I would have someone who is smart, independent, 101% responsible, super loyal, extra sweet, understanding, and loving. (cheesy, i know!)

Anyway,

At this point in our relationship, we're honestly talking and opening up to the idea of the big M... Marriage.
It's actually never been taboo for us.
In fact, we're looking forward to it!
And belonging to a generation where people marry very young...
We secretly get jealous of people who could afford a house or condo, and a fancy wedding at a young age...
When we stress out at the office (him even trying to find sideline work), put aside some money with our mean salary (considering he has to pay rent, the car loan, and bills, and i have siblings to support)...
Earning gradually, our closest time to getting married would be in 2-3 years...considering we already have a decent place to live and a budget for an intimate wedding in Caleruega...

But hey!
What's the rush?

My realization is this:
We are on the right track.

Don't get me wrong, I love the feeling of spending for my family.
I love buying them gifts I never thought I'd afford...
And I love the satisfaction I get from earning!
I have another account where i deposit a percent of my salary every payday, and Jejo has the ATM card so I don't get to use it, except for emergencies of course :p

And another thing, I love the feeling of missing him, because we only see each other once a week...
I enjoy the boyfriend-girlfriend hangouts and adventures to new experiences and places (places we couldn't go to before kasi wala pang car!)
I secretly fancy the petty fights that don't last for a few minutes.
I like to talk to him about everything: my success and failures, how my day went, what i discovered, what i bought, when i feel like ranting about something ETC!
I'm a bliss when he calls me at night before we go to sleep...and calls me in the morning when he wakes up (special thanks to SUN of course)...

And so, I truly believe God has this planned for us...
We just have to wait for our right time.
Happy Valentine's Day everyone!
Cheers to True Love!


22 comments:

  1. I admire both of you. :) there's no other way to go but tie the knot. And it's good that you have it all planned out. I know that when that day comes, you'll have a fab time being married.

    I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you guys :)

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  2. aaaw... ate lek to be wifey lek and then mommy lek? why not!! your partnership is truly something to be envied about. i don't think there is anybody against this couple, is there? we're all here for you jejo&lek! i can just so hear the wed-bells now!! hahahaha! i get uber excited pag may kasalan, so here's to forever and to true love and to 'the right time': tan-tan-tanan.. tan-tan-tanan... =)

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  3. haha!
    na-excite ba kayo?
    hehe thanks guys...
    >HUG<

    wha! na-excite din ako! :p
    chorva.

    I keep praying for that right time. :D

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  4. hahahha mas nakakakilig ito kesa tlga dun sa line ni sarah sa you change my life! hahahah korny tlga un pra sakn kc cgro nbsa q na sa txt! hahahah

    yeah, i wish u all the best, and sana makahanap dn aq ng para sa kin pra ka2lad nyo dn ako! haha yes! bf count: NONE! yet! hahahahah

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  5. magreserve kayo ng super aga (say 2 years) for caleruega...i heard the reservation's tough. hehe. :p

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  6. i love this couple eh. so syempre support to the nth level ako diyan!:) shit i must finish whatever i am doing in 2 yrs rin!:) haha! ok must do drafts of the wedding gown na pala.:P hahahaha!

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  7. there you go with the wedding preps! haha... na-excite ako. yey! invited kami.

    cathe, ini-invite ko na rin sarili ko. nahawa na ko sa'yo!:)

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  8. hahaha! see see, im a bit contagious.:P

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  9. haha,. im happy for the both of you.. =)
    grabe!

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  10. aww! i'm so happy for you!!!
    excited nako para snyong dalawa...
    tanda ko nung highschool...hehe...
    lovies!!!

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  11. wag ka mainggit..
    baka mauna ka pa! hahaha :p
    ini-invite ko rin sarili ko sa kasal mo :))

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  12. wala pa daw pumapasa sa standards mo :D

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  13. haha! ganon?
    super exagge pala ang demand nun,
    ang ganda kasi :D

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  14. haha, matagal tagal pa naman..
    babaan natin ng konti ang excitement level...
    hehehe.
    missu katz :D

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